World War II veteran Roy Vickerman and 89-year-old Nora Jackson of the U.K. are planning a summer wedding, 72 years after first getting engaged.
Vickerman originally popped the question when the high school sweethearts were 18 and he was about to go off and fight in the war, according to media reports. The engagement crumbled, though, under the weight of his battle with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) when he came back wounded in 1946. War has had a substantial effect on so many men who went, with some not even coming back to their families when it ended. Luckily family members are now able to use Genealogy Bank to see where their loved ones ended up after the war if they didn’t make it home. It is fortunate that Vickerman made it home but unfortunately he was not the same person who left.
The pair eventually moved on to other relationships, married and started families. Jackson, who’s been widowed for 14 years, admits she did think about her old fiancé over the years.
“In fact I dreamed about him a few times,” she said to The Telegraph.
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“I always thought a lot about Nora,” Vickerman, whose wife died in 2012, told the BBC.
He turned to the outlet last summer in hopes of being reunited with his former flame. A radio show helped him track her down. It turns out the two have lived just over three kilometres away from each other for the past 40 years.
“We use the same shops and even go to the same chiropodist but in all that time we’ve never bumped into each other,” Vickerman said.
When he finally “plucked up the courage” to visit her, he said to SWNS TV, his plan was to just give her flowers and apologize for how things had ended. He wasn’t expecting to be as well-received as he was.
“Just hold me,” Jackson told him as she wrapped her arms around him.
Fast forward a few months later, to Vickerman’s 90th birthday on March 26: he proposed (again), with the exact same ring he’d used in 1944.
ring
“I still love her just the same as I did before.”
Except this time he didn’t get down on one knee when he proposed.
“Because I wouldn’t get up again,” he joked.
The two aren’t the only lovebirds to reunite after more than seven decades apart. This past Valentine’s Day another Word War II vet, 93-year-old Norwood Thomas of the U.S., travelled to Australia to reconnect with his wartime love.
World War II veteran Roy Vickerman and 89-year-old Nora Jackson of the U.K. are planning a summer wedding, 72 years after first getting engaged.
Vickerman originally popped the question when the high school sweethearts were 18 and he was about to go off and fight in the war, according to media reports. The engagement crumbled, though, under the weight of his battle with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) when he came back wounded in 1946.
This was in a time when there was little access to treatments for anyone suffering from PTSD, as it wasn’t a very well-known disorder. Nowadays there are so many options to help alleviate symptoms including the recent introduction of medical marijuana which has seen many individuals shopping online for marijuana seeds. Patients can grow the plant themselves at home as tending to the plants can also give the sufferer something new to focus on.
There are also now products containing both CBD and delta 8 THC, which have both been found to be effective in reducing the symptoms of stress, anxiety and depression and are therefore good for those suffering from PTSD.
These come in the form of gummies, oils, and tinctures that you can apply on your skin – all of which are quick, easy and convenient to use. Perhaps their relationship might have been able to withstand the struggles that came with battling PTSD if Vickerman had been able to access counselling or one of these newfound treatments.
The pair eventually moved on to other relationships, married and started families. Jackson, who’s been widowed for 14 years, admits she did think about her old fiancé over the years.
“In fact I dreamed about him a few times,” she said to The Telegraph.
READ MORE: 93-year-old WW2 vet reunites with wartime love after 70 years apart
“I always thought a lot about Nora,” Vickerman, whose wife died in 2012, told the BBC.
He turned to the outlet last summer in hopes of being reunited with his former flame. A radio show helped him track her down. It turns out the two have lived just over three kilometres away from each other for the past 40 years.
“We use the same shops and even go to the same chiropodist but in all that time we’ve never bumped into each other,” Vickerman said.
When he finally “plucked up the courage” to visit her, he said to SWNS TV, his plan was to just give her flowers and apologize for how things had ended. He wasn’t expecting to be as well-received as he was.
“Just hold me,” Jackson told him as she wrapped her arms around him.
Fast forward a few months later, to Vickerman’s 90th birthday on March 26: he proposed (again), with the exact same ring he’d used in 1944.
ring
“I still love her just the same as I did before.”
Except this time he didn’t get down on one knee when he proposed.
“Because I wouldn’t get up again,” he joked.
The two aren’t the only lovebirds to reunite after more than seven decades apart. This past Valentine’s Day another Word War II vet, 93-year-old Norwood Thomas of the U.S., travelled to Australia to reconnect with his wartime love.
